Is it possible to be naturally clingy/needy?

I've recently come to the realisation that I'm one of these people.
I'm a very easy going, nice chilled person
But when I know I really like someone I turn into an overly attached girlfriend lol. Even guys I'm just seeing and aren't my boyfriend yet I'm cling/needy (not crazy stalkery obviously, just want to talk and see them all the time)
With my last boyfriend I intentionally toned it down in the beginning.
Is this just my personality? Or is it possible I'm insecure and have set bad habits somehow?
Or are other girls like this too?


Have an opinion?

What Guys Said 1

  • Some guys LIKE this. I am one of them and I have met others.

    It is nice to feel needed, wanted, important to someone.


What Girls Said 1

  • Prime example. People who need to be in relationships type people.

    • I guess maybe I'm genuine/affectionate
      And seem needy compared so someone who is independent?