The guys in my area who are my age are either immature assholes who don't want a girlfriend or they are in a relationship.
if I start going out in another area the guys will meet too far away lol
and I can't talk to random guys on the street
plus I refuse to use something like tinder
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Yes, definitely avoid dating sites. There is little to be gained by both guys or girls, unless perhaps they are paid, which probably do better. For girls, they are spammed with lame pickup lines from guys looking for a booty-call. For guys, they are stuck being thrown into a mix with these guys to impress girls who are sick of the messages, but aren't willing to post their own. Not a great experience.
OKC used to be good back when they emphasized questions and asked decent ones. It was questions like "Do you prefer the 'good guys' in stories, or do you get a thrill from the 'villains'", or "Do you like simple things like cuddling, or more hardcore things".
Now it is BS like "Do you prefer Nicki Manaj or Ke$ha" or "You’re eating a bagel. Which of the following toppings are you most attracted to?"
As for where to meet guys, on the street wouldn't be the greatest idea, anyway. People seem closed off and they are trying to get somewhere.
Best way I can think of is through friends, maybe classes, groups, or clubs. You're more likely to get a better idea of who they are and how they roll.0