Has an ex ever massed you up so bad that you feel like you've become like them?

To keep it short I was in a serious relationship with a girl for about 4 years, it was toxic she was very clingy very emotional very controlling. I used to be a very chill guy laid back and very independan, always needed some space. I got over the break up fast after she cheated on me. 2 years later I'm in a new relationship very serious, but I feel like I have become like my ex, I see those things I used to hate about her in me. I constantly have to fight the urge to not be controlling with my amazing girlfriend to not be emotional to not be clingy. I don't feel like I'm at all the old me, I'm much better of a guy, but I do see that My past relationship affected me. I hate it! I hate feeling like im treating my girlfriend like my ex used to treat me! What should I do how do I change it.

Im sorry for my grammar I'm not very good with English .


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  • Yeah my first love messed me up so much that I became what I am today