I don't want to be an old man in my 20's, finally meet my other half and then for me to be rejected because I can't cotroll my tongue.
Please help! I'm desperately in need!
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When you first kiss a girl, give her a gentle peck. If she wants more do an open mouth kiss, which is where your kiss eachother but you open and close your lips together. And if she gives you a little tongue, DO NOT stick your tongue down her throat! Just enough to "explore" her mouth. Also if you want to French kiss her but she's not French kissing you, gently slide your tongue across her lips letting her know you want to French kiss (but don't go straight into a French kiss on your first kiss, they will never forget that you're the guy that French kissed them for you're first kiss together, I'd keep it simple on the first kiss. I wouldn't French kiss her till the 2nd or 3rd date.)
Now that you know how to kiss, what do you do with your hands. Well, you when your pulling her in to kiss you, gently cup your hand (s) on the side of her face and slowly pull her face in to kiss you. Another one that girls really like is for the guy to gently grab her chin with a few fingers (and when I say few I mean like 2-3 fingers), like you're softly pinching her chin (but don't actually pinch her) and pull her chin to where her lips meet yours. Another thing you can do is put you hands on her lower back and pull her closer to you and she will most likely lean her head up to kiss you, but if she doesn't use one of the two methods I told you about a few sentences ago.
Once you get more into your relationship with a girl one thing that they like is to be "pushed" up against a wall and kissed passionately.