Most Helpful Guy
I've been through the entire gauntlet of dating applications and websites! The truth of the matter is that you just never know where you are going to meet someone. OkCupid, Plenty of Fish, Tinder, E-Harmony, Match etc. You have to cast a wide net to catch fish right?
Each of them will have their horror stories and novel worthy romances just as long as you are willing to put in the time, effort and patience.
Though, with all of that said, I will say that the free sites such as Tinder and Plenty of Fish attract more of a hook up culture crowd than the higher tier paid websites. While trying to free easy access mobile app popular trio of Tinder, OkCupid and Plenty of Fish I recommend you contemplate splurging some hard earned money on something more serious such as E-Harmony.
Most importantly, try not to stress and try to think of each individual date as a potentially unique enjoyable experience!
Most Helpful Girl
Tinder really isn't that bad, you just really got to watch who you are swiping for. There were A LOT of guys who where just like "dtf?" but then again I kinda only swiped them because there pic was just their smoking hot abs. But I did set up a lot of actual dates (then flaked just cuz that is the kind of person I am). But I met my current boyfriend of 8 months on there. Granted he wanted sex at first but the more I told him no the more he wanted to talk to me. So he finally (after like two straight weekends of asking to come over at midnight) asked if he could just take me out on a date and my dumbass said yes. like this guy was fucking relentless. But it worked out somehow (and I did make that boy wait 3 months for sex) and I am so glad that he is the one guy I didn't flake out on. Regardless of which site you choose, follow your gut for reeal! Also Okcupid is stupid. And my friend used to use match. com and Plenty of fish (POF) and he found his current SO (been together for a year) on match. But he also was in a 5 month relationship where his partner just used him for sex which he found on match.