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I have been paying for my boyfriend for almost five years now BUT I am also more well off financially than he is. His job pretty much uses him as a "bitch boy" who does all the shit no one else wants to do and they don't appreciate him at all so he's getting minimum wage. Where as I am a supervisor and make $9 more an hour than him.
Granted, we now live together and despite his feelings of "uselessness" (where he hates himself for not being able to do nice things for me), I have made us a joint bank account. My money is his money. I don't mind it. If anything, I like it because I can help him. So we "split" bills, even though its mostly my money and he pays for dinner sometimes now since we have gotten the joint account. It makes him feel better about himself which makes me glow with happiness!
But I also grew up realizing that money doesn't keep you warm at night. So if I can help him out and make him smile than its all worth it to me.