To make a long story short, we hit it off at the first date and he planned for a second one. There was a lot of innocent flirting here and there. Nick (not real name) had genuine interest in what I had to say, asked me a lot of questions about my life, family and hobbies. We laughed nearly all the time and he did most of the talking and never took out his phone except for showing me some things. Nick also laughed at my lame dumb blond jokes even though I could feel that he did not really like it. Since I am going back home for a few weeks, he seemed worried about me not coming back and asked for every detail to clarify things. When I told him I was gonna come back, he seemed very relieved.
A lot of girls came up to Nick and flirted with him, and I decided to test him a bit. Told him I gotta bin my drink and he disengaged from the girls and followed me right to the bin where I finished and binned it. Took 30min to finish and he still stood by me, never checking his phone or talking to other girls! We had fun for the rest of the night, but I think I fucked it all up.
I thought he was a player (since there was so many girls coming onto him and it was hardly possible for him to not be one) I told him everybody cheats on everyone and it was unrealistic not to think so. Nick told me in a relationship there has to be trust and it was more than fine to commit if he found the right person. I felt really bad for saying that and realized indeed I was deeply insecure. I tried to cover up the wrong move and agreed with him adding my statements. We ended up laughing and having a great time in the end before I said I needed to go. I left and he asked me whether I was gonna give him a hug or not. I hugged Nick and it lingered on for so long before I said goodbye. Also said the reason why I was on a dating site was to find friends but would take things further from there if it all worked out.
Not sure if he is still interested in me or demoted me to friendship material. Does he think I may not act the same way or only see him as a friend?
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He's definitely still interested in you. If he asked you if you were gonna give him a hug before you left, then he truly likes you. I think you realized your mistake and now know him enough to choose if you should take things more seriously with him. He's also a 100 percent KEEPER if he talked to you about there being trust and commitment in a relationship! I think you two are ready for more1