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I've had a lot if the same experiences. I think its a lot of the way hookup culture is glamorized in the media. I would much rather be with one woman I really loved than 100 I dont care about. Unfortunately, that seems to be the minority opinion, especially among younger people.
I guess keep trying and remember that there are thise of us out there that do want real relationships. Try going for older guys, they are much more likely to be mature and be willingvto settle down.
Another poster said something about, guys that only want a physical relationship being "more confident" this is not true it only appears so. They have no nervousness so they apoear confident, but the reason they are not nervous at all is that they simply DO NOT CARE about you or if the relationship works out, so they never worry and get nervous about it, and they SEEM confident, but really its just apathy.