So I mean this may sound full of myself or whatever, but like I don't have a problem getting a date or anything like that and we will go out and have a great time, but then they find out that I take intimacy a bit more seriously and am not the type to quick jump into a sexual/physical relationship till I've been with them a while. When they find this out they usually jump ship and I don't hear from them again. I don't know it's a bit disheartening and I don't understand it...
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I've had a lot if the same experiences. I think its a lot of the way hookup culture is glamorized in the media. I would much rather be with one woman I really loved than 100 I dont care about. Unfortunately, that seems to be the minority opinion, especially among younger people.
I guess keep trying and remember that there are thise of us out there that do want real relationships. Try going for older guys, they are much more likely to be mature and be willingvto settle down.
Another poster said something about, guys that only want a physical relationship being "more confident" this is not true it only appears so. They have no nervousness so they apoear confident, but the reason they are not nervous at all is that they simply DO NOT CARE about you or if the relationship works out, so they never worry and get nervous about it, and they SEEM confident, but really its just apathy.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE