Me and this guy been seeing each other for about 8 months (a ridiculous long amount of time to be dating). Lately he been asking me who he is to me, and that he wants to let me know I'm the only girl he's seeing. I'm very special to him and he care about me and likes me a lot. I like him too but since he takes forever to ask me out, I asked him out yesterday. He said he really need some time to think about it deep down he already knew he has to think about it awhile ago. I've met all his siblings and close friends and we hold hand and kiss in public. I remembered a few months ago he said he has trust issue and he's single for 2 years already. But if he likes me that much why does he need time to think about it? Why doesn't he just say yes? Maybe he doesn't like me that much or am I unattractive to be his girl? Why does he need time to think about this? I thought we're already together...
Most Helpful Guy
He has trust issues, and maybe because he was deceived by his ex, he doesn't wanna be deceived again, so he has to take some time to think about it first. And he probably wants you to prove to him that your feelings towards him are true.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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I had a friend in university who has a situation just like yours, that took her (now boyfriend) a long time to decide and commit.
Every guy is different, it may be family factors and other things, also stress and life in general. Try to be understanding to him and his situation. If you guys are so close now, there's no reason to resort to thinking that anything is wrong. Give him some time and he'll come along. It's good that you have told him how you feel. :)0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE