I give my boyfriend blowjobs all the time. I want him to know i enjoy pleasing him. I thought by doing that, he would be more then happy to return the favor. I always make sure I am clean. I taste myself periodically because I wanna make sure I am fresh. I always smell and taste great. I have mentioned this to my boyfriend and he says he doesn't know what I'm talking about and that he loves it. But I feel if he loves it, he would wanna do it all the time. My ex couldn't get enough of eating me. On average I'd say my current boyfriend does it once very two weeks. I want him to do it like every other day, or at least every 3-4 days. I give him blowjobs at least every other day and sometimes 2-3 times a day. He just doesn't seem to be that into it. I want him to crave me like I do him. So I need some advice... what could be going on?
Guys, My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to go down on me. I don't get it?
What Guys Said 8
Well some solid communication is required here. It does seem some what selfish of him but until you ask him you will not know for sure.1
yes you should dump him.. its a deal breaker. I like to go down on girls once a day for about hour. I think we would make a great team!! do you have KIK?1
Maybe he has lower sexual drive than you. I think if you feel horny like this; you can try pleasing yourself (although this isn't a great substitute for sex, but hey, that might make you feel better). Or, if you can risk a bit more, you can try to talk dirty online to guys whom you find good and reliable! That can also be a good option! After all, you aren't having sex with someone... you are just talking dirty... You aren't cheating him.
You live only once right?0
I have idea. i wish my girlfriend would let me do it to her more1
Do u wax ! My girls the opposite she won't go down on me untill she gets to know me more1
tell him it tastes like bacon down there0
Is he in love with you?
Love will change it... it's actually quite a disturbing and disgusting thought to go down on women before love happens for a lot of men.0
Perhaps he doesn't like it? Ask him why he doesn't do it often. Hopefully you guys can come up with a compromise :)1
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