I have know this guy for 10 years.. we hooked up a few times back in the day. However we have stayed in contact throughout the years and me being in other relationships as friends. Now that I am single he has been texting me all the time. I wasn't feeling well he sent me roses. He invited me to Paris at the end of the summer. He asks how my mom and I are doing all the time... but he also talks about sex... about half the time. I think about sex all the time too and I know guys do. We are both attracted to eachother and also have always liked eachother. We are meeting in two weeks to have a weekend together... no sure exactly what is going to go down... but is it ok to just straight up ask him do you only want me for sex? or friends with benefits? I feel like the roses etc... has thrown me off Thanks!!
- He justs want me for sexVote A
- He wants me for more than sexVote B
Most Helpful Guy
This one could be tricky... He could just be VERY determined to get in your pants... Or he genuinely wants to be with you. I, personally, would need more information to form a solid opinion. But to answer your originally question, I don't at all think that it's a bad idea to ask him. Definitely do it before anything happens.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
I think that he loves you. Sex can be a beautiful thing. If no abused. Just make sure that is what you BOTH want.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE