Most Helpful Girl
1) Some are, some aren't. Don't generalize.
2) How can she help what she feels? It doesn't matter how much she rationalized that she was able to move on, if she honestly doesn't feel that way, that doesn't mean she's truly changing her mind.
You can mentally fix emotions like this. You have to DEAL with them so that you can then progress. I'm betting she wasn't even leading you on--she tried to move forwards and her emotions held her back when she thought she could.
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Most Helpful Guy
She's afraid of 'making a wrong decision.' I know as a guy who is very indecisive, kinda raised into an environment where I'm pressured to make decisions and being punished harshly for doing wrong while knowing no better.