Not in a relationship yet but eventually will be after finishing HS next year. However, I'm leery of sharing this information to any guy I'll be going out on a date. The last thing I need is another creep that only values me for being a virgin and would treat other women differently instead of like a human. I'm not a gem nor some diamond to be obtained. I'm a human. Someone already tried and he looked so polite at first. Luckily I have both female and guy friends. I found out what he was early after a couple dates. He wasn't polite because that's his overall personality but only because of my status while not being the treating other girls the same.
I don't want to be overly wined nor courted just because of my virgin status while that guy would be the very same player using and talking bad about girls that have a past or he considers ''easy''. I think a real man doesn't talk smack about others (esp if he enjoyed sex with that woman) for bragging purpose nor uses others for commodities''.
I'm still disgusted that I even wasted my time with that one creep. I wanted to see if he was for real and open-minded (I wasn't exactly too convinced) and yes, my suspicions were right. He was a fake.
Most Helpful Guy
Virgins are a pain in the ass... But I'll deal with it if I really like you. (I think only virgin guys or inexperienced ones like virgin women...)
However you better tell me because there is no way I won't figure it out during sex. So I'd rather feel like you wanted to be honest about it.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
Well, I didn't say anything about it to any of the guys I dated. The only time I ever mentioned it to anyone was when I was about to have sex for the first time.
If you feel like it's necessary for someone to know something like that, that's when you tell them and no sooner if you can help it.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE