I am a 17 years old who is kindda desperate for a boyfriend. you know the saying, "good things come to those who wait" well iv been waiting for almost 17 years now and Im tired. what does it take to actually get a boyfriend, besides the whole make up and excessive look and pretending to be who your not. I want someone to like me for me. so what does it really take to get a guy. I really like white guys who are tall. for me i think that white guys are more nicer and romantic and caring. I told myself that Id waid for my dream white guy. I tell myself that maybe i watch too much American romance movies and read too much romance novels. Im a jamaican so maybe thats why it hard. Im not black iv got that cool brown complection. lol
Im starting to get insecure and having all kinds of ideas like guys dont like me, and maybe one day ill wake up and be 69 with a cat and living in a big hous by myself. and i fear that a lot. anyone can help?
Most Helpful Guy
" well iv been waiting for almost 17 years now and Im tired "
were you really waiting for a white boyfriend while you were 4 months old sucking on your mamas breasts?
tbh, the fact that you think there's some special way of getting a white guy that's any different than getting any other guy probably means that you need to wait a bit longer, and in that time you need to do a little more homework on how men work, and how insignificant race is4THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
At your age now it can be difficult getting a boyfriend... I know that sounds strange especially if a lot of girls you go to school with have boyfriends. First of all high school relationships almost never last. And by the time you're an adult you will find that the dating pool expands dramatically. Don't get super hung up about not having a boyfriend right now.
As far as wanting to date a white guy, you just have to find the right one. Maybe once you're a legal age you can find a slightly older man to date.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE