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Not if you discussed it and agreed, I wouldn't want someone else to order for me if I had no say in the matter but just ordering to the waiter? Go ahead, whatever. Have you found that guys get upset at that? Is that a power thing? Maybe it's a macho thing or something about confidence that the person is taking charge so some insecure guys who think they have to be that way are the one's who get offended by this. No secure man should ever be upset at something like this unless you're trying to do something to undermine him to bring yourself up which I'm guessing is not the case here.