Most Helpful Guy
I've dated women for months without sex on a couple occasions but as a general rule if the woman is expecting the relationship to develop into a potential marriage I would expect to have sex first. Not everyone is sexually compatible with everyone else and sex, while not the most important thing in marriage by a long chalk is important enough so I wouldn't chance it
Most Helpful Girl
I read an article that says the longer you wait the more solid your relationship is. In a way, probably true. If you move too quickly and the sparks died down fast, you probably thought he care less and panic.