I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend or a real relatiinship. I've talked to and seen over 20 guys and they all have ended the same way. One day they just stop talking to me and they leave me wondering what I did wrong. Some of these guys I've fooled around with other guys I haven't none of them have gotten vaginal sex from me because I want to wait because every guy just peaces out after a month and why would I want to have my first time with a guy who will just leave? I feel repulsive and rejected constantly. It's embarrassing to be the one that every guy throws away and it doesn't even matter what type a guy I go for they all do the same. I've tried the jocks, the manly men, the nerdy nice guys, the musicians. They all leave one day and just don't reply to my messages or take my calls. What is wrong with me that no one wants me? I honestly feel so ashamed and embarrassed of myself. The longer it goes the worse I feel. I just don't even want to bother because I know they'll be gone in a month but I get lonely. I just don't get how other girls get boyfriends all the time and guys run from me. They all eventually come back into my life but that's a long while after and it's never the same.
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I counted 24 mentions of I, me one, something to do with you in the question above. Try this trick. Eliminate all of these mentions from everything you say to him. You don't have to lose who you are. You will immediately be more interesting to the guy. At your age it is common to focused on yourself. You will get guys much more interested when you stop that. Have your own things you like, your goals, fine, just keep them away from date conversations unless he asks and then try to steer back to more about him. You want to find out what he is really like anyway, right?
By the way dropping references to yourself actually helps when you interview for a job as well.0
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