Isn't great that women can ask out or get asked out and still wouldn't be obilgated to pay for the whole thing or half? Isn't it great that Never paying for a date wouldn't ruin your dating chances ever? Isn't that empowering? There's rarely a guy that could get away with never paying for a date without it ruining his dating chances. Also ladies isn't it great that a lot of men are so dumbly blinded by pride that they would never allow you to pay anyway?
Most Helpful Girl
I always offer to split the bill or pay for it myself. But usually the person who suggests the place to go is the one who pays (traditionally)
I think it's just the older generation who has this problem.
Another aside, most guys will INSIST they pay even when you say you (the girl) want to pay.0
Most Helpful Guy
Of course it's great. Wouldn't you feel awesome if you didn't have to pay. But decent women, those you wanna date, will offer to split the bill.
I won't pay for the whole date, cause we're both on the same boat, we both wanna get to know each other, we both are there cause we wanted to be, and we're both equal, therefore, we split the bill. If a woman doesn't wanna split I'll tell the waitress to split the bill herself and I'll pay for my part, and then I'll be out of there and not date her again.
I'm no one's bank, if you're gonna use me for my money, go find someone else.1