Most Helpful Girl
I always offer to split the bill or pay for it myself. But usually the person who suggests the place to go is the one who pays (traditionally)
I think it's just the older generation who has this problem.
Another aside, most guys will INSIST they pay even when you say you (the girl) want to pay.
Most Helpful Guy
Of course it's great. Wouldn't you feel awesome if you didn't have to pay. But decent women, those you wanna date, will offer to split the bill.
I won't pay for the whole date, cause we're both on the same boat, we both wanna get to know each other, we both are there cause we wanted to be, and we're both equal, therefore, we split the bill. If a woman doesn't wanna split I'll tell the waitress to split the bill herself and I'll pay for my part, and then I'll be out of there and not date her again.
I'm no one's bank, if you're gonna use me for my money, go find someone else.