He hasn't ever asked to be in a relationship, whenever I mention it he puts it off, saying things like, he's scared, he doesn't want to hurt me or visa versa. He will just go horrible if we do.
He doesn;t want to ruin how things are atm, shit like that. I know he was really hurt in the past and its made him put a guard up, but why punish me for it?
How long should I wait, is he ever going to want a relationship?
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Heh, it's just a label. If you have been that close with a guy for that long, that pretty much IS a relationship.