he said when ''im wet'''enough i should contact him (he knows im a virgin). Either i give it up to him or he won't talk to me, he said i dont deserve his attention anymore and that he has ''other'' women he rather spend his time with. Im a very beautiful woman, i even got spotted by a photographer and people always say i should model, i feel like he is trying to make me feel bad by not texting me, giving short answers when i text him, when i ask him whats wrong he just doesn't answer only says bye like 10,000 times. Im 23 year old girl and im a virgin because i dont sleep around and the thought of sex makes me feel like it hurts, he told me to grow up and contact him when i m ready to sleep with him. I asked to see him but he said he doesn't want to ''hear'' my nagging. Im hurt by this? i know he is a jerk but when i didn't wanted to see his face a long time ago and i still did him a favor by meeting up with him and he can't even do the same thing for me?
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I’m going to assume you’ve never had a mother or older woman tell you “guys 101” so here it is, NEVER and I MEAN NEVER EVER talk to a guy that makes it clear he wants nothing to do with you unless you give it up, and the fact that he knows you are a virgin makes it worse. I want to go on record and say I am very proud of you and I don’t even know you. He has no idea of the diamond he is passing up, and frankly until you tap into your own self worth and demand your respect, you will always be treated this way whether its by him or any guy. You are pure, and sex does hurt I won't lie to you, but it’s not dramatic pain like most people say it is. It’s more pressure than it is pain, but it’s also more beautiful when you share it with a man that was patient and gentle enough to wait and date you until you are ready. Just because you are not ready to give it up, doesn’t make you childish, it means you haven’t found someone worthy of it. I’ll tell you right now, I’m 26 and because I don’t do it often, the shit still hurts at times in the beginning lol, but in a good way. Make sure you save that diamond for a man that’s worth it. I don’t care how much you like this guy, he doesn’t even deserve to breath the same air as you.0