Guys, why would a guy say he's too "lazy" to go after a really hot girl?

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Insecurity? Are they more difficult to go after?


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  • Insecurity to some extent, but also the fact that hot girls get approached more often. I only dated a stereo-typically 'hot-sexy' girl once in undergraduate. We would go out on Friday nights and if I left her alone for a minute even there was always some guy talking to her... I never once thought she would cheat or felt threatened, but it is more work for sure...

    The only fight I have ever got into was with her, some guy actually pulled us apart while dancing and started dancing with her. I explained we were dating and he said to fuck off, so ya... I had another guy once flirt with her after I said we were together... it is emasculating to constantly feel like you have to prove to society that yes, this girl who is insanely attractive does in fact like me and not some cheater...

    Either way, we broke up for other reasons, but I have never gone after a girl of her looks again because of this...

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  • You said it insecurity, they think (hell I think) attractive women are to good for themselves and would never say yes to themsleves, I'll tell you my philosophy with women Im no Chantum Tatum, so if I see a smoking beautiful women at the beach or etc. I wouldn't ask them cause they would say no and create embarrassment for myself, and them, so I rather just avoid the embarrassment all together.

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  • I usually don't even bother with stereotypically attractive women that would be considered 10's by most guys. I'm average looking but those girls must get hit on all the time that the work needed to get her attention and then keep it seems out of my means. Only time I've dated really hot girls was when they were friends with me first and got to know me and asked me out. So calling it what it is: insecurity.

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  • If a girl is hot and she knows it, shew will expect a guy to do a lot more than more insecure girls. I guess such a girl would just be more work and I understand why one would be too lazy to deal with it.

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  • They make it a lot of work to get them, playing hard to get, setting rules and all that. I think if two people like each other it should flow naturally not be some step by step process.

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  • Really hot girls have expectations. They want a guy who looks as hot as she thinks she does. It`s a lot of work. To hell with them lol

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