Too busy for a relationship?
What Guys Said 1
Guys will find time for things they feel the most strongly about. The kind of dedication he puts into sports will also be the same kind of dedication he puts into a relationship, if he finds the right relationship. If he is not doing that with you now, it is not likely that he will suddenly start doing it later. That behaviour does make it seem like a relationship with you is not at the top of his list, even if he enjoys it. He clearly enjoys other things more.
You really should have that relationship talk sooner rather than later, even if it is hard to bring up, because you need to get some things out in the open and get to know his feelings. At his age, a committed relationship is quite probably super low on the list of things to do, though that could be modified by religion a bit if he thinks he will have to just settle with someone sooner rather than later if he wants to actually have sex in the next few years. But that nonchalance is a red flag for long-term stability for sure.0
What Girls Said 1
He's busy. He has a life. Why should he put his life on hold just to make you happy?0
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