Most Helpful Guy
In the case of the actual number of years I don't think there is a problem, the problem is where you both are in your life. At 19 you may well think you know it all and what you want out of life , but I can tell you I thought the same thing when I went to college, dated more seriously, and really thought about my future I found out that I still had a lot to learn and honestly that doesn't ever really stop. The point I'm trying to make is that at 33 he has learned a lot more about life than you have and I believe that is going to cause problems between you.
That being said I don't think its impossible for you guys to have a relationship, but you both will have to be very patient with each other and care about each other a great deal to have a lasting relationship. I wish you guys luck if you are already in one.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yes. But it depends on how mature you are. But Then it sucks cause you guys won't be able to relate on a lot of levels. You can't go to a bar with him when he wants you too&you can't take him to parties with your friends cause he might feel too old. I've dated older men, it's a plus cause they are mature but there was so much things I couldn't do with them cause I wasn't 21. I'm dating a guy my age now and I have to say it a lot better in some ways. It just depends on both of you guys, honestly2