I have a boyfriend, but have fantasy's about other men, why?
What Guys Said 4
Well, first off... Don't date your co-worker. Ever. The workplace drama is never worth it.
Now, the thing about us guys is, we aren't going to change. So if he's always been like that, he will continue to be like that. So don't wait for him to act differently.
Frankly, if you don't want to be with him anymore, you shouldn't. You're doing both of you a disservice by being in a "fake relationship" if you don't want him anymore.0
Relationship seems fucked and over with. You're thinking about your coworker as you're having sex with your boyfriend. Having fantasies is one thing, thinking about someone else during sex is a sign there is something seriously wrong.0
He most definetly wants to fuck other girls it's normal excersise some self control will u.0
Make a pros and cons list about staying with him. Then do another one in a couple months to see if stuff is going downhill. If everything is great and you're just thinking of others to get off while sleeping with your main, I think that's normal. But if you're not attracted to your main anymore and are just staying with them because you're too scared to be alone, that is something else entirely. It's 2015. The days of being obligated to stay with one person past the point of misery are long gone.
If I'm enjoying myself, I'm there. If I'm not, I'm out.
It is harder for a dude because we have to earn a mate. Women can just walk down the road and get 10 new numbers, so why you'd stay if bored, I have no clue.
You could always cheat and hedge your bet. If you're going to bounce and he likes you it's going to hurt either way and is the safest play for you. And you might find out your desires are purely sexual, and with them fed your relationship is actually better. I think these days women are so complex they are actually the ones who need multiple lovers now. Men have become the women of old in a lot of ways.0
What Girls Said 3
Your mind has a mind of its own, so to speak! Many people fantasize about others but won't admit it. It happens at times. It seems you miss the excitement you had with your SO and you want to recreate that with your coworker. Talk to your man.. Cook for him... get an intimate, romantic scene going and talk to him... let him know you love h but you need to do things together that are exciting. ... Communicate. ... with a loving attitude. He'll come around!0
Having fantasies like that is normal as long as you don't act on them.0
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