Im currently talking / seeing this guy I met a month ago. And I though I didn't like him that much, but when I though he had lost interest (later found out that he has Just been on holiday) I got really upset. I found out he was interested and really wanted to meet me again.
Anyway, after I though he had lost interest I stoped liking him and im currently in a state where im not sure if I want to continue this or not.
I dont understand why I do this and it makes dating very emotional challenge for me... dating is kinda hard for me
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like you're not sure what you want in a relationship, but you really want to be in one. Maybe you should stay single and just "date guys" for a while.0
Most Helpful Girl
Hey girl, I'm the same way!! I think it's a way of protecting ourselves... We get super into this guy, start falling for him... then, all of a sudden it seems we like him more than he likes us, we start to feel really sad about it, maybe at times even embarrassed... we hate that feeling so much that we just get rid of it all together... Learned to detach ourselves in order to prevent rejection. If we loose interest, he no longer has power over us, we can not be rejected, he gets rejected instead... That's why I think I do it anyway...0