We don't meet often as he doesn't want to take any risks to cheat on her, but his texts are clear.
Recently, I've told him that I am fed up with this texting etc.
I had even told to stop contact, but he contacted me a week later.
I can't take him seriously anymore, because he makes hints to meet, but doesn't follow up. I just can't take it anymore and have started dating other people.
I used to get angry at him, when he couldn't make it or had to postpone dates, but I've become cold towards him.
When he texts me, the first thing is to get angry and then I calm down.
I can't deal with the mixed feelings. On the one hand, he tells me he wants to see me etc, but on the other hand, he doesn't follow up. I just feel so stupid and played, but he knows that as I have already told him.
The feelings i have developed towards him are no longer healthy. I feel resentful and I feel hate towards him for treating me as he does
Most Helpful Guy
If he's willing to flirt with other girls (you) while he's with a girlfriend (her), what makes you think he won't do the same to you. Guy sounds like he just doesn't know what he wants, you need to decide if you want to be with that sort of guy, and, I don't think you really do deep down2
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Most Helpful Girl
... I don't have anything out of this situation...
End the madness, Get back your Life that has had Nothing but Strife With... The first thing is to get angry and then I calm down.
You are In what I call a "Triangle Threesome," where you way at the top, looking down, from side to side, at the both of Them. And the More he comes around, the More he is toil and trouble and it has gotten to the breaking point now Where... The feelings I have developed towards him are no longer healthy.
Along with being taken, he is Taking terrible advantage of You and your heart, Mistaking Kindness and patience for weakness.
You Need to Stop Enabling him to Continue down this battered beaten path because it seems he will Never leave her, will never change his pattern and Never... Stop Playing around with You.
His 'Texts are clear' here, dear but with me, the writing on the wall and All Spells: Block him from my life.
Good luck. xx1