Is it a red flag if a girl talks about herself a lot? Now naturally I'm good listener and good at getting info out people. Anyway I went on a date with this girl and she was an open book. I would ask a question and she could talk and talk. Most of the talking was about herself though. Don't get me wrong it made it easy for me and she gave me my chances to talk. She just didn't really ask any questions for me. The thing is she still super flirty and laughy around me and pushing me too. She let me touch her elbow (and she absolutely hates being touched) so that was good. I don't know what to think because I've been told that's bad but I feel like she could also be trying to qualify herself though. The best part was she worked for like 11 hours today and still found time to go on a date with me hiking that same day.
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It sounds like Chatty Cathy was perhaps indiscreetly this Nervous Nellie who was trying to sell herself and with 'Most of the talking was about herself,' she may have used this as a tool to cover up for the way she was feeling and reeling.
Now that you know what She is all about, you at least know she is not this shy girl. She did allow you 'My chances to talk,' however, if you do decide to go on a Next date, set her straight, that now that you know all about Her, you would like to have her listen to More... About you.
It may give her a helpful hint with none of your hymning and hawing and No Yawning... That she too is a good listener and good on your own accord to just Tell Great Date Kate things about yourself.
Good luck. xx0
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