Most Helpful Girl
The guy I'm dating paid for the first date even though I was the one who asked him out because it was a long drive for me- I had every intention of paying for the both of us, however. Since then, we make sure to take turns paying. For example, he drove 40 minutes to a movie theater near my hometown on our last date and when he pulled out his wallet to pay I told him no- I was paying and it was best not to argue. Needless to say, that date ended in an awesome kiss.
I'm an adult and want a balanced relationship. Sure I'm unemployed and working miscellaneous jobs myself for the time being, but I sill pay. It sounds like you're letting her treat you like a meal ticket... don't.
Most Helpful Guy
unfortunately it's still happenin but in a smaller degree... i say unfortunately since we live in 21st century and this shouldn't be a thing anymore in my opinion.
but if she's unemployed... eh ok i'd pardon u. basically this was da reason y men paid... most women didn't work back then that's y.