Im 22 dating a 20 yeaer old girl who is unemployed and I pay for all our dates, is this still customary? Like should I say something cause it is a tad annoying or is this just the natural course of dating. She's the first girl i've ever dated who literally never contributes anything monetarily.
Most Helpful Girl
The guy I'm dating paid for the first date even though I was the one who asked him out because it was a long drive for me- I had every intention of paying for the both of us, however. Since then, we make sure to take turns paying. For example, he drove 40 minutes to a movie theater near my hometown on our last date and when he pulled out his wallet to pay I told him no- I was paying and it was best not to argue. Needless to say, that date ended in an awesome kiss.
I'm an adult and want a balanced relationship. Sure I'm unemployed and working miscellaneous jobs myself for the time being, but I sill pay. It sounds like you're letting her treat you like a meal ticket... don't.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
unfortunately it's still happenin but in a smaller degree... i say unfortunately since we live in 21st century and this shouldn't be a thing anymore in my opinion.
but if she's unemployed... eh ok i'd pardon u. basically this was da reason y men paid... most women didn't work back then that's y.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE