So be honest, if there was a guy your only spoke to occasionally in person and a few times over FB, would you respond receptively to the conversation starter "What are you doing?" or would you find it creepy?
PS I am the king of awkward as I keep messing up eg calling her by accident and I sent her a thumbs up by accident too by mistake
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Definitely don't start the conversation that way. If somebody began the convo that way with me, especially if I didn't know them too well, I'd feel a bit uncomfortable because it suggests that you want to know what she's doing so that you can offer to hangout. Maybe just start with a simple hello, hey or hi. She won't read into it as much as you think she will, which generally is a good thing if you're scared of stuffing up.0