Most Helpful Guy
That is such an "uncool" thing to say (definitely not in the standard guy's playbook) that he must mean it. . . unless he is an experienced player using a less common approach to lull into trusting him and dropping your drawers.
Most Helpful Girl
There is Only way to find out here, dear, Be the apple way at the top of tree hardest to get and grab, And... Call his bluff.
If he finds you a challenge, a chase, and sticks around, he Respects you and in the end, even if he would get a little Lovin'... He does mean it because it's You he really cares about.
Good luck. xx