The reason I'm looking a bit older, is because I want to settle down rather sooner than later, you know and I feel guys my age aren't ready for that. Right?
But well as I said, I don't meet that many older guys and all men that DO show interest are my age. And I like some of them as well, I just can't shake this feeling that there won't be a future for us, because ultimatley they want what I want now, much later in life.
Is that just in my head? Or would you say that that is a reasonable assumption?
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There may be a bit of truth to what you're feeling especially if you've put it out there in previous relationships that you want to settle down, and you've been met with a constant string of men you're age or younger, who aren't ready for that, but just as there are men who don't want to settle down that are your age, there are women too, which means, there are probably some men your age that do want to settle down to so simply discounting all of them, may end up hurting you. You may need to try a dating site if you are convinced on the age thing to try and find older men, but also letting guys know either in person or on your profile that you are looking for something a lot more serious will cut out those that have no desire to do that and you and they know to move on instead of getting all involved and then getting hurt later.0