Well.. surprisingly I am in a situation dealing with a decision that I am incapable of solving by myself.. So hello to all you strangers on the internet!!
Basically, my current life resembles a sappy chick flick that you seem to always be tricked into watching... so there are two guys - very different but share one similarity; the fondness of yours truly. Being the hopeless 15 year old that I am, I actually like both of them!! So here is where your words of wisdom come in to aid me.
1st guy- lets refer to him as Jake. Stereotypical bad boy. Huge partier; lots of fun. He's super confident and I think that's what makes him approachable and easy to talk to. Despite his mysterious look and rebelling attitude, he's a super sweet guy. He makes me smile and laugh. I think its cool to see another side of someone. Makes you curious to see what other surprises they may contain. Only downside of him is that he occasionally smokes some weed which kind of throws me off. Not trying to offend people that have these kind of hobbies, but it isn't exactly my cup of tea. He still manages to stay active and honest. I would also be able to see him more often on the contrary to guy number two.
2nd guy- ahh the classic guy that you meet as a result of your best friend's effort in finding you love. Lets call him Nate. Super shy yet sweet and a little bit on the cute and nerdy side. Smart guy but often keeps to himself. Humorous in a silly way and acts like a cuddly and bubbly softy. other than all of the great traits he has, he seems like the kind of person to stay in his comfort zone and not be risky once in a while. of course that isn't a bad thing, but im a great representation of that kind of person and i feel like a need someone to help me grow and experience new things.
As for myself im just the girl trying to find herself in the world while managing to get straight A's and apparently having boys spill their love to her #nottrue #foreveralone
Most Helpful Guy
Relax kid :) Don't be so dramatic ok? You're only 15, you're just starting to live, enjoy life, find passion and a lot things more. Your journey has only began. You have a LOOOONG road ahead of you. You're NOT going to be forever alone or anything like that.
As for you question, you may not notice it, but I think you unconsciously made a choice already, huh? You said it yourself: "Guy 2 is the kind of person to stay in his comfort zone and not be risky once in a while. of course that isn't a bad thing, BUT im a great representation of that kind of person and i feel like a NEED SOMEONE TO HELP ME GROW AND EXPERIENCE NEW THINGS".
So, you're need someone who'll take you out of your confort zone and make you explore life and experience new things. According to your description that would be GUY 1. If I may say so, you are just looking to know if it's ok to choose the "bad boy". Yes, it is, girl. C'mon you're 15! You need to learn and explore life now!
So go for it! ;) If it doesn't work out, oh well you have your whole life ahead of you.
And just to let you know: I'm a high school teacher, I'm very used to working with teenagers.