I just got out of a 7 year relationship. He was texting other girls and was verbally abusive to me for many years. Anyway, getting back in the dating world I feel like I dont know where to begin I dont have a lot of confidence in myself I am shy when I meet new guys and my personality doesn't shine through.
I recently went on tinder and everytime I match with a guy he will message me ask me a couple questions that stop responding? I dont understand, where can and how can I meet guys to date?
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"I just got out of a 7 year relationship. He was texting other girls and was verbally abusive to me for many years."
I know that the relationship probably has been dying for years however... take your time! This is your chance to really work on building up your self esteem, confidence and knock down your life goals.
I can tell you right now that no matter what you do in the dating world, it sounds like you came out of an exhausting relationship that was emotionally and physically draining and that's going to get picked up by potential mates. Which you won't find what you're looking for.
Anyways: Tinder. match and all those websites has made it a great way to "potentially" meet a lot of people but the interaction has become a lot less personal as everyone has this "next best thing" approach to dating.
- I too am adjusting to these things.1