So I just started dating a girl that I crushed on in elementary school. So we've been on a couple real dates but main have just hung out together at her place or mine, watching movies, cuddling, etc. I try to talk to her every day, mainly by texting. It always ends up me texting first and I dont know why. We've been dating around 3 weeks now. I dont want to come off as desperate or anything texting first everytime. We suprisingly haven't had sex yet, but we kiss intimately every date/hangout. What are your thoughts on this?
Most Helpful Girl
You can text first as long as it's relevant and not too often. Maybe sometimes wait for her to say something instead... and never send a second message without a reply to the previous one1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
I have been in this exact situation bro.
Best thing to do is ask. Just start a convo and any time you want just ask ' why don't you message me first (just curious)?' Or something along those lines bro then you'll get and answer
When I asked this the girl just said 'I don't want to bother you or annoy you' :)1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE