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It's always hard to get over your first love. Took me almost 2 years to get over my first boyfriend, and I had also been with other guys since him, but now I could care less about him. I thought I would never move on either, but I promise you will.
It always feels like after a breakup that you'll never be with someone so attractive and so amazing again, but you will be able to move on and feel the same away about someone else. I'm glad you at least understand that she is a cheater and a user and not some pristine unicorn.
It does take time, and believe it or not, 4 months is not THAT long to grieve. Keep yourself occupied and continue to start dating other women. I'm sorry she left you and I know how bad it hurts because a guy I hooked up with and wanted desperately for 9 months told me a couple of weeks ago that he was now dating someone and did not want to see me anymore. I felt crushed because he was dating her instead of me. I have hope for finding someone new and I am excited for new love opportunities, and you should be too.0