I met and hung out with a guy and we hit it off, but things got intimate very early... I told him I didn't want to rush into anything, but he said that he wanted to break the tension. I know that some people prefer intimacy early on in a relationship to make themselves more comfortable, what are your thoughts? How do i know he isn't just using me?
Also, as soon as we decided to hang out again, he immediately mentioned me "looking at him whilst doing it this time" (sorry TMI :$). He suggested dating exclusively after 3 dates, but i would rather not sleep with him again if he's a player. Why can't i get to know him first rather than just getting to know his dick?
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I don't know what to say. Only time can actually tell.
You can just tell him that you don't feel comfortable doing sexual things with him. If he keeps pressuring you or if he gets mad about it, then he is probably into the sex part and nothing more.1