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If a guy invites you to his place for a first date, he's trying to tell if you're DTF.
There are still guys out who do real dates. I know I do - but then I like going out with girls. You're probably going to have to weed through the guys who just want a hookup to find ones who actually want to date. Looking to older men might work too (though you don't have to start at 40 lol)