So I've been crushing on this girl pretty hard for a couple of months now. We see each other pretty often and when we do she shows signs of interest by staring into my eyes for a long time talking about relationships. She's a pretty shy girl who doesn't really have much experience with relationships. We used to text a lot with back to back messages w/o delay. She ignored me once so I did the same. And when she even called me out on it I acted like a jerk. I realized I did this and decided I had to make it right. So I texted her to apologize and to ask if I could make it up to her somehow. She responds "what was this something that I could do?" I ask if she's at home rn. She says yes. So I don't respond I go buy flowers drive to her place and surprise her and I apologize. I said "I'm sorry for the things I said last night and the things I haven't said in the past. I hope you'll accept my apology". She doesn't take the flowers at first for some reason. But eventually she does. I then tell her "another main reason I came was to finally ask you to go on a date with me sometime" she responds with "Kay" perhaps the most ambiguous line ever. I leave her place with giving my applies again and telling her that "go on a date sometime okay?" I text her after work and she doesn't respond. Which Is weird cause she usual does right away. So girls and guys I'm lost.. Did I do the right thing in telling her how I feel? Was "Kay" an alright response? What is she thinking? Were the flowers overboard? And more importantly what should I do Or act? Cause I see her often.
-note* we've been out together alone plenty of times to eat and hangout but we've never called them dates even though I paid.
Today I saw her. At first she acted very indifferent towards me and wouldn't even really look at me when I spoke to her. I acted like it was the same to try to ease the awkward tension. Eventually we were in a big group and I made a couple of inside jokes we both knew and things began to become normal between us again. I was really happy to see this. But why do I feel empty? How should I bring up that I actually did ask her on a date and need an actual response (yes or no)
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She's not interested. I wouldn't press this anymore0