A short time after we still got on quite well but she became a little more distant and then said she had started seeing another dude. We didn't speak for a little while understandably but we've started talking again, and things haven't worked out with that other guy.
I did say we should do something again but she said that we were just friends. I'm not quite sure what to do here, I do still like her and I'm pretty sure she knows that. I don't want to be used as just someone to make her feel good when she's been rejected, what do you guys think?
Your advice must appreciated as always! Ben
Most Helpful Girl
ahmm not really being used because she made it clear and direct to you that she sees you as "friend".. If she didn't made it clear and letting you feel as if she likes you more than friend, then thats being used.. And also if you let her feel good outside of friend zone (as if she's your partner) then you let yourself being used..
Most Helpful Guy
Friends are suppose to make their friends feel better when they need it. If you want more than you probably don't want to be just friends and are better off telling her and cutting contact.