- yes it's a turn-offVote A
- no it's cuteVote B
Guys, if I say "I like you" by text to a guy, would it be a turn-off?
What Guys Said 15
If I know u well then it's not a turn off. It would be less awkward then if I barely knew u. So as long as u talk a good amount to eachother and he's used to u then no problem.
Id try it if I was u. It's not a turn off at all. But my advice is that when u tell him make yourself sound like a typical girl with emojis and stuff dont be too serious by writing a plain sentence like this: "I like you".0
Nah, it's definitely not a turn-off. It depends on his feelings toward you though. It will actually be a turn-on If he already likes you or is attracted to you. He will like you even more. But if he doesn't, then he will probably thank you but won't do anything about it.0
For the first it me you say it? ya it would... I value in person things waaaaay more than text. I would likely loose some interest/ not take you as serious... I f you really like him, you can say it in person!0
We appreciate directness... guys cannot read " Female Code " unless we've had a lot of training in what to look for... we are totally differently wired to you ladies. Now reverse the genders = instant rejection ( generally speaking ).0
Yes and no, I'm more of a direct person, I honestly like when a girl tells me face to face, I understand if your shy :)0
If I liked you, I'd be flattered and would want to date you... if I wasn't, it be weird.0
Only if he doesn't like you back, but in that case nothing you can do is a turn on.
Go for it.0
It depends on the relation between me and the girl. if I know her well it's cute.
If she's a stranger it's a turn off0
I wouldn't care if a girl chose to tell *me* that by text...0
It can be both0
Its cute yea.0
No, you wouldn't want to be broken up with over text, right? Better to just say it in person0
this is the problem with most girls nowadays. They just don't give guys enough hope. Some go over the top and pretty much tell a guy they want to bang his brains out (which can be turn off... unless its a hook up). Others play hard to get WAY TO HARSHLY. Saying "I like you" is cute and innocent. Nothing wrong with it all.0
That's really cute,,, because I thought if you say it by text to me I'll see you like my mind and what I think about what we chatting about it. I hope you understand what I mean 😂0
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