So a guy and I are close friends we talked everyday and we always respond to each other a couple of nights ago He ignored a text so I was like he will text me back when he can. But he started posting on every social network and he put he was in a relationship. So now I know he was dropping the friendship a bit because he had a girl, he texted me "hey" yesterday with a question mark and I texted him today saying "what?"
im just kind of annoyed because if I got into a relationship I'm not dropped everything because of one dude I'm sorry but I'm allowed to have friends, guys and girls. Doesn't mean I'm hookup up with all of them. So it just shows how the friendship was so important.
he did admit to liking me but I didn't have feelings for him, he brought it up a month ago again and I still said no but he got past that and we became cool again.
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I'm going through the same thing right now with my best friend. I know he'll come around soon, but I'm pissed off to the max with him. I think him and I not talking has something to do with his girlfriend and her best friend. They both see me as a threat because I am so close him. We were basically attached at the hip up until the day he asked her out. His gf's best friend is definitely trying to pull us apart. My best friend and I also just have a really weird dynamic with one another and our friendship is, to put it lightly, complicated.
I would never toss aside my best friend just because I got a girlfriend. He means to much for me to do that to him. I just think he doesn't know how to balance the two most important girls in his life. His girlfriend and me. Opposite gender friendships, especially best friendships, are hard to maintain when one of them gets into a relationship. I think he's just struggling right now with having a girlfriend and then having a bff that's a girl. I'm not clingy and I don't mind that he is paying less attention to me, but I'm a little tired of being invisible to him.
Some guys can't handle the balancing act of friends vs. girlfriend. Girls are the same too, of course, but we aren't talking about girls, haha. Lol, I too live in a different state then my best friend which prohibits us from seeing each other face to face a lot, but we go to the same school (different campuses) so I see him then.
I would just leave it for now, but if he comes back around then take your friendship for what it is. Just don't have expectations. Or you could try talking it out with him and tell him how you truly feel. I should probably be taking my own advice... haha.0