Anyone...would you marry your first girlfriend or boyfriend? This would be the first person whom you have ever had sex with. Do you believe in having sex with one person the rest of your life? Also once you are married...you will be making love to that same person forever so its a huge commitment. Do you want to go out and experience it with someone else before you can settle down? If anyone has thoughts please share.
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I didn't marry my first boyfriend but I did marry the only guy I have ever had sex with--we've been married 23 years now (I'm 47). When I think back on my first boyfriend, I think we could have been happy together but it just didn't work out. Unfortunately, with the man I married, he has been verbally abusive. So, I am now questioning my decision to wait to have sex until I was married. I think "Ironpanther12" (below) said it all. Marry the person you feel like you can't live w/o regardless. I can't say I felt that way about my husband & maybe that was the problem. I don't think it has so much to do with which number it is but whether its the right person.1