What is a good way to let a girl know that you like her but you don't know if you want to date her?

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ok let me rephrase it. How do I let a girl know that I'm into her but I don't know if I want to date her yet?

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  • Walk up to the girl, introduce yourself if you haven't, and tell her you'd like to get to know her better.

    If you know her, just tell her you're interested in her and would like to get to know her more to see if you two would be compatible... if she's interested as well.

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What Girls Said 25

  • Don't tell a girl you like her unless you want to date her. I have had guys do this and it is the most confusing and frustrating thing. You should really think about it and see where your crush goes before you tell her, find out she feels the same way, and get her hopes up. Or if she doesn't like you, then you will just feel weird about how you told her about a small crush and it will be awkward.

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  • Definitely don't do that because that is leading her on whether you realize it or not. Make sure you really do want to date her before you hint at all.

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  • That's just weird...
    How can you like someone you don't know?
    And before you say you know her - how can you know someone but not know if you want to date them or not?

    Say nothing. Just hang out with no promises...
    You can't put dibs on someone and expect them to wait until you make up your mind.
    She just might find someone else while you're making up your mind.

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  • Why tell her at all? I mean, if you aren't serious about it, what's the point?

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  • It sounds like you would like to get to know her better. What girl wouldn't be flattered? It means you are actually taking her seriously and respect her. I would tell her exactly that, that you respect her, and that you like her, but you would like to get to know her better before dating her.

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What Guys Said 5

  • I'm confused. The whole idea of dating is to get to know someone. There isn't any point where you don't know someone well enough to date them. Maybe you don't know them welll enough to marry them, or move in with them, or even have sex with them, but that's why you date.

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  • Don't confess. That's the most important thing.

    I mean, how is anyone supposed to react to a "maybe but I'm not sure yet so please hold back but still act like maybe it can come true"?

    What you need to do is to try to chat with her more, show more concern. This will let you understand her better, and understand if you really do like her. It would also tell her that this guy here seems to like her kinda, but she's not entirely sure if her judgment is right.

    Of course, don't play any mind games either. Do it naturally and with the best intentions.

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  • If you like her why wouldn't you want too date her.. don't lead her on

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  • Don't say anything.

    The best way to view dating is as a war. Would you tell the enemy your battle plans?

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  • Don't tell her, you'll just confuse the hell out of her.

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