How to stop sabotaging relationships?

So I have this bad habit when I am texting and emailing girls of saying WAY too much, then them getting freaked out and then ruining the relationship. Before saying these things I usually feel a twinge of "should I really say this?" But I usually ignore that feeling and just say whatever is on my mind. Then it always comes back and bites me in the butt. How to stop doing this?


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  • Listen to that twinge. Only say what needs to be said, don't babble.

    • But the girl usually wants to babble because they don't trust you since online dating is sketchy? What to do.

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    • Just talk to them and if they seem normal, meet them in a safe public place (like Starbucks). This is basic online dating stuff.

    • I do and they just ignore me.