I'm not ugly, but I'm not extremely good looking either. I posted a picture of myself recently and I got a lot of good feedback from both girls and guys (no homo).
Anyway, I'm just wondering whether most girls/guys who frequent dating sites are only there for validation?
It seems that way because even though I send good initiations (i. e no boring messages), I don't get a lot responses.
Out of 5 or 6 girls I found attractive, only half answered.
I really want to meet that special girl... a white brunette who is both bubbly and cute... brown eyes, pale-ish skin... I don't really mind about the height.
With this sort of facial structure preferably.
Most Helpful Girl
lol that girl is very good looking and i can tell you, i have done online dating and got 100+ messages a week so i being different than most women sort of got turned off by it, but it gives you an idea, basically that girl in the photo is going to get at least 100+ messages a week or emails, so maybe just try to take that into consideration.
guys online go so bad for looks and just reach out to all the attractive women till someone bites and the women just sit there and delete messages till the most perfect guy is found.0
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Most Helpful Guy
you probably don't get a lot of responses because people who date online are literally looking for the most they can grab at, the best they can possibly get, and even then they still have the "grass is greener on the other side" mentality.1