So I am talking to this girl and when we are together we both have a fun time, we laugh and make jokes. We also used to text and usually I started messaging, after a while she started messaging me also. Sending funny pictures and videos of herself. I thought this was a good sign and continued talking but somewhere it went wrong and I feel that I have been too needy and possessive of her whilst there was nothing going on (at least not a relationship wise thing). Now we still spend time together outside school, even more than before. But when it comes to the messaging part, it's really quiet from her side and she usually responds with short answers or doesn't even try to carry the conversation on. I know she's not that keen on messaging because she always says: Ugh what does this person want blablabla yadayadayada and also checks her phone like only every hour or so. So what I wanted to know is, should I just lay off texting her and focus on the real thing? And do all girls text non-stop with their crush or whatever, or are there really girls that don't like the online communicating stuff.
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you can't categorize "all girls" under one heading.
anyone will like it if their crush texts them, but depending on the openness and stage of your relation, how she'll react will differ.
are you being clingy?
is she mad at you for some reason to not text properly all of a sudden?
does she want space? or is she putting distance?
I'm in a long relationship, and sometimes I just feel too aloof and moody to text back immediately. My boyfriend gets pissed/upset at that, but I can't help it.
call her up, hang out. test the waters.0