So I'm dating (we're basically behaving like we're together already) a great girl. My experience so far was a relationship for over 5 years, and short "benefit" sex with 2 girls, once with each.
Now she never had a relationship, and only sex with guys sometimes once, sometimes twice, and this bothers me. She's a great girl, and I know now she wants only me, but for some reason it pisses me off so much when my head starts to think in that direction.. I know it shouldn't bother me that much, but it does and I need some advice on how to make it stop. Sometimes I can't stop imagining "where did she learn that", or "if she's willing to give her body to someone that easily, what does it even mean".. Because she's really flirty and so many guys ask her for a date. Again, I know she's only interested in me, so why am I so upset by her easygoing sex life before me?
Most Helpful Girl
Well, you should be honored. She never gave her heart to anyone but you. You should start thinking this way. It takes nothing to have sex with someone. It takes everything to start a relationship. I also think you get more sexual experience when you're dating soneone for a long time. I don't think she could have learned that much from one night stands.1