Been dating a guy for almost two months is that a long time?
And often he has been the one who has paid for like drinks and snacks, and its very nice but i can pay for my own things and i would love to pay for both, I've once paid for movies and candy and last night i bought him and i sushi and went to his place and he was very grateful..
Im not good at this dating-paying stuff.. how do you do it in the long run? i mean i can pay for myself
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I think the guy should initially (maybe 3-4 dates) but then I think it's nice to start offering or chipping towards the costs of whatever you are doing. It's also nice to take turns on alternative dates. At the end of the day, it's something that you two have to decide as a couple.
I had a boyfriend who went mental if I even dare ask to pay for something - he said it made him feel really uncomfortable, so he literally paid for everything. I even pushed on occasion with really expensive stuff to test his limits, and he still paid.0