I feel like he just wants to hang around, wait until I'm done/help me with dealing with my problems and then ask me to date him. But my problems can't be resolved anytime soon, so to me it feels like leading him on. Although he suggests it himself, relying on him for emotional support just doesn't seem fair to me, knowing that he likes me romantically and that I won't be able to date him. What do you think?
Most Helpful Guy
no because then you're using him dont let him lead himself on1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
... But my problems can't be resolved anytime soon, s it feels like leading on.
You said a mouthful here, dear, and are being very wise and sensible in spilling your guts out. Along with everything else on your plate, you don't needs someone who may end up being a ball and chain and being hooked at the Hip, not only as a life line but With... Lip.
Let him down easy but be firm Tell him you are very sorry but with careful consideration, you feel it really isn't Fair to him as well as You and right now, is not the time for you Or... For him.
Good luck. xx1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE