Most Helpful Girl
I'd say that it doesn't matter - as long as
1) He's not hung up on any of them
2) He has retained his ability to be vulnerable and emotionally open (in my experience, older/ more experienced guys are more jaded and less willing to open themselves up emotionally)
3) He has been responsible sexually (tested for STDs)
4) He doesn't talk about his past relationships in detail, unless only to talk about an experience he didn't like and kind of give me a heads up about something that could be a deal breaker for him0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
I've been in a relationship with 5 girls, and I don't know if that's a lot or not.
I think it depends on how much she's dated, 20 guys would be a lot and would make me think that the reasons she's dated so many guys is because they get tired of her, that's why they leave her.
If you're talking about dating but no relationship, then I don't mind how many dates she's been to.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE